Resources – Turning Loss Into Light

Written Reflections

Poems

Two Hearts, One Beginning

You came together,

two heartbeats woven into one beginning,

two souls sharing the same quiet miracle.

I learned your rhythms before I knew your names,

felt your lives before I ever held your hands.

You were never separate in my heart—

only in the way the world chose to meet you.

Still Loved, Still Mine

I held you in dreams

long before I held you in my arms.

You were known,

you were wanted,

you were deeply loved.

Though your time was brief,

your presence was not.

Reflections

A Reflection on Loss, Love, and Becoming

Grief entered my life quietly, but it changed everything. The losses I have carried are not moments in the past—they are part of who I am now. I became a mother to children I did not get to raise, and that truth reshaped my heart in ways I never could have imagined.

Each loss came with its own kind of silence. Dreams that never reached the world. Milestones that live only in my thoughts.

Turning Loss Into Light

Purpose, Reflection & Foundation Loss changed my life in ways I never expected. It altered how I see the world, how I love, and how I move through each day. Becoming a mother to children I could not keep taught me that grief is not something you leave behind—it is something you learn to carry with care.

For a long time, my world felt divided. Joy on one side. Grief on the other.

Downloadable Resources

Grief Support Guides

The Early Days After Loss

8 Pages

Gentle guidance for the first hour, days, and weeks- when everything feels` impossible.

Includes:

1. What to expert emotionally

2. Practical next steps.

3. Self-care basic.

Talking About Your Baby

6 Pages

How to speak your baby’s name, share your story, and navigate uncomfortable conversations.

Includes:

1. Finding Your words.

2. Responding to others.

3. Setting boundaries.

Supporting Siblings Through Loss

10 Pages

Gentle guidance for the first hour, days, and weeks- when everything feels impossible.

Includes:

1. How to tell them.

2. Answering their questions.

3. Supporting their emotions.

Self-Care For Grieving Mothers

7 Pages

Practical, compassionate ways to care for yourself while carrying grief.

Includes:

1. Physical recovery.

2. Emotional support.

3. Asking for help.

Navigating Triggers

9 Pages

Preparing for and moving through difficult dates, triggers, and unexpected moments.

Includes:

1. Understanding triggers.

2. Planning ahead.

3. Coping strategies.

Honoring your baby throughout the year

12 Pages

Preparing for and moving through difficult dates, triggers, and unexpected moments.

Includes:

1. Daily rituals

2. Special occasions.

3. Memory keepsakes.

Pregnancy & Infant loss awareness